Sunday, July 29, 2007
Just the 3 of us
It's really hard to figure some ppl out. But then again, Psychology has never been one of my stronger subjects. Blueks!
I've to get it off my chest man. Cant stand those nosey people who poke ard their noses to other people's affairs. Where they dont belong. I mean, sheesh. Everyone has their reasons in doing things. Right?
It's none of their biz whether me and Hubs wanna have 1, 2 or 10 kids for that matter. Everyone has their own visions of a Perfect Family. Like i don't criticize the way you plan your life, I dont think it's too much for me to expect the same from you.
My best friend, Aida and hubby already have got 2 kids. We both got married a month apart by the way. And we had our 1st baby in the same year too. Not once, she questioned me when will we be having our next one. And I have never probe into her personal life unless she herself wants to share with me. Same goes for me. And i really enjoy that mutual respect we have for each other.
Come to think of it, even my own parents have never asked me. Oh man. How judgmental can people get? It is pretty subjective when it comes to Family Planning. A wife who is an only child may want 4 kids. And a husband who comes from a big family background may want only 1 kid. So it is not for anyone to decide but the couple themselves.
Btw, I am not even 27 yet. So i dont think i need to be too worried abt my Bio-clock ticking. Not yet anyway. Haha. And err my boy's like only 2?? So Insya-Allah if ada rezeki, adalah tu lah yer??
Sorry if this post may sound off a bit negative. It's that time of the mth probably?? ;p
Just the 3 of us
